Wednesday, 04 June 2008

• SOULMATES AND LOVERS

   

  I don't have much to share here.  A sort of drought has come in my mind and I am waiting for the rain of thoughts. Meanwhile, this is the extract that I posted in my another blog. Many questions are there in my mind about soulmates and lovers and to get somewhat better pictutre I have put down some words......

  I used to always think that soulmates are your lovers only and whoever will be my lifepartner will also be my soulmate that God has chosen for me. But sometimes deep down my heart used to ping me that it could be wrong. Still, I am not clear about exact difference between the lover and soulmate. But yesterday in the tarot class M threw some light on this. She told soulmates and lovers are different. It is not necessary that your lover will also be your soulmate. And  when I told her I want my lifepartner to be my soulmate, she told that my soulamte is a woman, but she has no clue about her. I have to wait till the time when my soulmate will be revealed to me. For me the best thing is ’sharing’. I need to share what I think, how I feel and this is the way to make my mind free. Good, that I came in Blog World.

  According to her, soulmates can be any person with whom your soul feels a sense of completeness, any person who can know the silence of your heart and everytime when you talk or think about him/her, there is nothing that you can expect. All your life will be fully satisfied. In love, it may happen that you will be happy with that person but deep down in your soul, in your heart, there will be something that you will miss. Many times it will flash in your heart, but may be you will think that my partner is giving me everything and may be it is bad to divert my mind on something. There can be dissatisfaction with your lover but not with your soulmate. There is pleasure with your lover and happiness with your soulmate.

  There is a reason for every event and for every person who is coming in your life. But no need to make your life a mess thinking about reason for every single person with whom you have met. Life will show you the reason and may be unknowlingly that time, you will just walk away. Events and persons do transform us. It may happen that you have promised or talked about something in your previous birth and now in this birth you both are meeting to accomplish that promise and to fulfill any objective.

  Out of curosity, I thought of searching on web if I could get something. Most of the pages talk about love only. And some of the pages describe how to search for your soulmate? Do we need to search? No, never………..I believe this task is of God, let God do this thing afterall God is the best decision maker for us.

  Web says, “there is no doubt that somewhere, possibly in the deepest recesses of our heart, we are all looking for a person who will make us feel complete. It could be your spouse, parent, sibling, friend, guru, boss or even your pet dog”.

  This is among many of the definitions that I like.

  “A soul mate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are…"

  “Our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life.”

   

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